Conflict

Israel and Gaza

Incident Code

ISPT0389

Location

دوار الخربة، رفح, Vicinity of Khirbet Al Adas Junction, Rafah, Rafah, Palestinian territories

Geolocation

31.288705, 34.263661
Accuracy: Nearby landmark

Airwars Assessment

Last Updated: September 25, 2025

Around dawn on Thursday, October 19th 2023, the home of the Dhair family in Musabah area, near the Khirbet Al Adas junction, north of Rafah, the Gaza Strip, was allegedly bombed by Israeli military aircraft, resulting in at least 19 civilian fatalities, and injuring a number of others, including one victim who was seriously injured.

69-year-old teacher Hassan Shehda Hammad Dhair and his wife Zainab Salem Dhair were killed alongside their sons, daughter-in-law, grandchildren, nephew and relatives.

Their sons were identified as 34-year-old Shehda Hassan Shehdeh Dhair, 30 year-old Badr Hassan Shehdeh Dhair, who were both killed in the incident, and Anas Hassan Dhair. Anas was not killed in the incident but a friend named Abu Al-Azz Abu Hilal reported in a post on Facebook on the evening of October 19th that Anas was staying in intensive care after the incident and asked others to pray for him. Shehda’s wife 36-year-old Ibtisal Musa Shehdeh Dhair and their two daughters, 4-year-old Sally Shehda Hassan Dhair and 1-year-old Habiba Shehda Hassan Dhair. Badr’s wife 28-year-old Rula Muhammad Mansour Dhair was killed along with their son Hassan Badr Hassan Dhair and Anas’s wife 22-year-old Alaa Juma Salim Dhair was also killed along with her daughter 1 year-old Yaqut Anas Shehda Dhair were also killed. Zainab’s nephew 28-year-old Ayman Jumaa Salem Dhair was also killed.

Other family members including 23-year-old Zain Hassan Shedeh Dhair, 25-year-old Marah Hassan Shehda Dhair, who was a photographer, 27-year-old Kariman Naja Shehda Dhair and her three children, her son, 3-year-old Amir Muhammad Jumah Dhair, and two daughters, 5-year-old Amira Muhammad Juma Dhair and Aseel Muhammad Juma Dhair, an infant, were also killed. Multiple sources described victims remaining under the rubble but didn’t identify the number of victims or their names.

An account named Rafah City reported in a post on Facebook the following day that victims were injured in the incident but did not specify how many injured victims there were.

Abu Al-Azz Abu Hilal reported in a tribute post to the Dhair family on Facebook that 19 out 23 ‘martyrs’ from the Dhair family had been so far identified.

Local journalist Mohammed Sami Dhair shared images on Facebook on the morning of October 19th that showed the destruction caused in the alleged incident. One image revealed a care crushed by rubble and another an excavator searching through the rubble. More graphic images shared by Mohammed Sami show civilians carrying a child’s body and another a sheet carrying victims body parts.

Images shared by Rafah City showed the scale of destruction to the area and a crater in the centre of the rubble. Civil Defence members can be seen helping to clear the rubble.

Family members, friends and classmates of the Dhair family made heartfelt tributes and described their grief. Ayman’s friend and classmate made a heartfelt tribute and shared a photo of Ayman smiling in a shopping mall. Another post shared photos of Professor Hassan Shehdeh Dhair with his family members.

Ibrahim Abu Ahallouf expressed his grief at the death of his friend Shehda Hassan Shehda Dhair in a post on Facebook saying “I have a beloved, dear friend, and brother. I lost him … and I did not believe it”. Alongside the post, Abu Shallouf shared a photo of Shehda, from before the incident, on a beach with his young daughter Sally.

Where possible, names have been matched with the Palestinian Ministry of Health list of fatalities in Gaza released on October 26th, 2023.

Where the sources identified the belligerent, sources attributed the strikes to Israeli forces.

Victims

Family members (19)

Hassan Shehda Hammad Dhair حسن شحدة حماد ضهير
69 years old male killed Matched to MoH ID 928880962
Zainab Salem Dhair زينب سالم ضهير
Adult female killed
Shehda Hassan Shehdeh Dhair شحدة حسن شحدة ضهير
34 years old male killed Matched to MoH ID 802054338
Ibtisal Musa Shehdeh Dhair إبتسال موسي شحدة ضهير
36 years old female killed Matched to MoH ID 801896895
Sally Shehdeh Hassan Dhair سالي شحدة حسن ضهير
4 years old female killed Matched to MoH ID 440866721
Habiba Shehda Hassan Dhair حبيبة شحدة حسن ضهير
1 years old female killed Matched to MoH ID 444811798
Badr Hassan Shehdeh Dhair بدر حسن شحدة ضهير
30 years old male killed Matched to MoH ID 804608776
Rula Muhammad Mansour Dhair رولا محمد منصور ضهير
28 years old female killed Matched to MoH ID 400839114
Hassan Badr Hassan Dhair حسن بدر حسن ضهير
Child male killed
Zain Hassan Shehdeh Dhair زين حسن شحدة ضهير
23 years old male killed Matched to MoH ID 405858069
Marah Hassan Shehda Dhair مرح حسن شحدة ضهير
25 years old female killed Matched to MoH ID 403708282
Ayman Jumaa Salem Dhair أيمن جمعة سالم ضهير
26 years old male killed Matched to MoH ID 402524813
Kariman Naja Shehda Dhair كريمان نجا شحدة ضهير
27 years old female killed Matched to MoH ID 401775077
Amir Muhammad Jumah Dhair أمير محمد جمعة ضهير
3 years old male killed Matched to MoH ID 442311346
Amira Muhammad Juma Dhair أميرة محمد جمعة ضهير
5 years old female killed Matched to MoH ID 439036997
Aseel Muhammad Juma Dhair أسيل محمد جمعة ضهير
Under 1 female killed Matched to MoH ID 444751739
Anas Hassan Dhair انس حسن ضهير
Adult male injured
Alaa Juma Salim Dhair Shaer ألاء جمعة سليم ضهير الشاعر
22 years old female killed Matched to MoH ID 407106012
Yaqut Anas Shehda Dhair ياقوت أنس شحدة ضهير
1 years old female killed Matched to MoH ID 445817455

Key Information

Military Actor
Strike Type
Airstrike
Strike Status
Likely strike
Civilian Harm Reported
Yes
Civilian Harm Status
Fair
Causes of Death / Injury
Heavy weapons and explosive munitions
Civilians reported killed
19–23
7 Children, 6 Women, 5 Men
Civilians reported injured
2
1 Man

Geolocation Notes

Reports of the incident mention the vicinity of the Khirbet Al Adas Junction (دوار الخربة) to the east of Rafah (رفح), for which the generic coordinates are: 31.288705, 34.263661. Due to limited satellite imagery and information available to Airwars, we were unable to verify the location further.

Military Statements

Israeli Military Assessment
Suspected belligerent
Israeli Military
Israeli Military position on incident
Not yet assessed

Media From Sources (28)